Singles Features Copyright https://www.crosswalk.com 2026, Crosswalk.com Thu, 08 Jan 2026 03:23:00 -0500 https://www.crosswalk.com/faith/women/ways-for-oldest-daughters-to-heal.html https://www.crosswalk.com/faith/women/ways-for-oldest-daughters-to-heal.html Becky Weber https://www.crosswalk.com/author/becky-weber/ I grew up as the oldest of three sisters. Being the oldest is a unique position to be in. I was the first child to experience things in my family, never had an older sibling, and felt like I had to be the responsible one. My childhood was not horrible, but being the oldest left some areas in my life that I have had to work on healing. I have been a bit of a perfectionist, have had unrealistic expectations for myself, and have cared way too much about what others think of me. It took me until I was in my 30s to realize this about myself, but you can't heal what you aren't aware of. I have slowly started letting go of these things, and I really feel like I am becoming a healthier person. If we want to heal, we need to have some direction on what needs to be done. I want all oldest daughters to know that you can become a better version of yourself and start the healing process.Here are five ways for oldest daughters to heal.Photo Courtesy: ©Getty Images/Westend61 Wed, 07 Jan 2026 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/happy-new-year/spiritual-goals-for-the-new-year.html https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/happy-new-year/spiritual-goals-for-the-new-year.html Michelle S. Lazurek https://www.crosswalk.com/author/michelle-lazurek/ While there's nothing wrong with wanting to improve your health, put money away for a rainy day, or lose that extra ten pounds, we often place spiritual goals at the bottom of our to-do list. What if 2023 was the year we re-defined success by focusing on our spiritual goals rather than our personal ones? Tue, 06 Jan 2026 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/happy-new-year/new-year-same-single.html https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/happy-new-year/new-year-same-single.html Liz Lampkin https://www.crosswalk.com/author/liz-lampkin/ I’ve listed 12 simple steps you can take or engage in for every month of the year to become a better single. While this process won’t happen overnight, if you are intentional about improving, changes will come about slowly and steadily. Mon, 05 Jan 2026 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/7-creative-new-years-traditions-for-christian-singles.html https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/7-creative-new-years-traditions-for-christian-singles.html Candice Lucey https://www.crosswalk.com/author/candice-lucey/ Single men and women still keep New Year’s traditions. They might look a little different from those of their married counterparts who compromise between the heritage of and traditions of each spouse, but also less obvious direction and support. There is more pressure to party and drink, but also an opportunity to propose alternatives to non-believers or Christians who are wandering or simply immature. Here are ten creative New Year’s traditions for Christian singles.1. Start an Annual 5k Run“Since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us”. (Hebrews 12:1) This is easier to do in Florida than in Colorado, depending on snow levels and temperatures. But if the weather is inclement or prohibitively frigid, take the race indoors, to a local 24-hour gym, where times and distances are recorded on each treadmill. Or record time and distance on your home equipment. If you are really competitive, make this a fundraiser among your sporty Christian friends - raise money for any charity that really speaks to you.Ask your church to get involved, creating a natural point of reference for participants from within and outside the Body of Christ. Ask your church if they can handle advertising, perhaps administer funds, and even just be there as another place to stop by and get information about your personal New Year’s tradition. Soon, people will be asking, “Are you going to organize that 5km run again this year?”When friends visit the church in person to donate or to find out the time and date of this event, they get a chance to learn what else the church is doing, such as other fundraisers, games nights for young adults, counseling, and children’s events for their nephews, nieces, and younger siblings. They have a natural reason to stop by and find out that your church secretary and pastor are normal people.Photo credit: ©GettyImages/Oleksandra Yagello Wed, 31 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/7-resolutions-every-single-christian-should-make-this-new-year.html https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/7-resolutions-every-single-christian-should-make-this-new-year.html Cally Logan https://www.crosswalk.com/author/cally-logan/ A new year opens the door for new resolutions and goals to be set and carried out. These goals can be uniquely chosen for a specific individual, but as Christians there are resolutions we all can be more mindful to take part in throughout this new year. Partner with fellow believers to help you stay accountable to these aspirations and invite the Lord to help enable you to stay on track and not become distracted.1. Meditating on God's WordGod has graciously given us His Word to not just read but to dwell in, absorb, and cherish. Many studies will help you to stay on track to read the entire Bible in a year, but remember it is about knowing Him better, not finishing just to check off a box on your to-do list. Consider the words of Psalm 1:2-3: "But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law, he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water that yields its fruit in its season, and its leaf does not wither. In all that he does, he prospers."When you find your delight, safe haven, and mind set on meditating on God's Word, even if it is but a verse a day, know that it holds value. The Lord often speaks through His Word; through it, you will be reminded again and again of Who He is and of His faithfulness.Photo credit: Unsplash/Priscilla Du Preez Tue, 30 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/reminders-for-christian-singles-feeling-alone-on-new-years.html https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/reminders-for-christian-singles-feeling-alone-on-new-years.html Vivian Bricker https://www.crosswalk.com/author/vivian-bricker/ On New Year’s, it is common for singles to feel alone. After all, most of our friends are ringing in the New Year with their partners. If you’re the only one who doesn’t have a partner in your friend group, it can make it hard not to enjoy the holidays. This is true not only for New Year’s but also for every other holiday. We see others joyfully celebrating the holidays, yet we are just feeling all alone. Leave space for these feelings. Allow yourself time to grieve; however, I still want you to have a wonderful New Year’s. There is only one New Year each year, and I don’t want you to miss out on it. There are plenty of fun things you can do on New Year’s that will help you not feel as alone anymore. Moreover, turning to the Lord, relying on Him, and trusting in His blessings can change your mindset. Here are six Christian reminders for singles feeling alone on New Year’s.Photo credit: ©Anna Efetova Mon, 29 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/christmas-and-advent/the-best-advice-for-the-newly-single-at-christmas.html https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/christmas-and-advent/the-best-advice-for-the-newly-single-at-christmas.html Cally Logan https://www.crosswalk.com/author/cally-logan/ As the holidays approach, it is almost impossible to escape the theme of romance. From Hallmark movies to jewelry store ads, the holidays constantly bring up couples. That can be a harsh reminder for those who are single, and especially one for those who are newly single at Christmas. Wed, 24 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/ways-to-make-a-lonely-christmas-meaningful.html https://www.crosswalk.com/slideshows/ways-to-make-a-lonely-christmas-meaningful.html Whitney Hopler https://www.crosswalk.com/author/whitney-hopler/ Will you be spending Christmas alone this year? As Christmas approaches, you may be feeling more sadness than Christmas cheer as you think of having to spend Christmas alone. However, you can still enjoy Christmas, even if you find yourself alone during this festive season. Even in solitude, you won’t be truly alone, because God will be with you. In Isaiah 41:10, God assures you, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Christmas, at its core, is about God’s presence. Matthew 1:23 points out that Jesus is “… Immanuel (which means ‘God with us’)”. So, don’t get discouraged by spending Christmas without other people nearby. Here are seven meaningful ways to celebrate Christmas with joy and wonder when you’re spending the holiday alone: Photo Credit: Unsplash/freestocks Tue, 23 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/christmas-and-advent/things-singles-do-and-dont-want-to-hear-this-holiday-season.html https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/christmas-and-advent/things-singles-do-and-dont-want-to-hear-this-holiday-season.html Lynette Kittle https://www.crosswalk.com/author/lynette-kittle/ Some individuals love living the single life, especially during the holidays, enjoying the freedom to do whatever they want when they want. Whether it’s taking the next trendy trip to another country or spending the holidays in the mountains or tropics, they seem to be living the dream life.But for singles who really want to be married, especially during the holiday season, it’s a real and sorrowful struggle for them. If not difficult enough to handle on their own, very well-meaning individuals with good intentions often try to encourage, comfort, and help single friends and family members out of the goodness of their hearts.Yet, too often, like Job’s friends, our comfort can unknowingly add more sadness to the single person’s life simply by reliving their sorrows and disappointments. Some of us have likely made some of these well-meaning blunders over the years, speaking misguided words in the hope of encouragement but having the opposite effect.The following are twelve things singles don’t and do want to hear this holiday season.Photo credit: ©Anna Efetova Mon, 22 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00 https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/what-does-the-bible-say-about-living-with-someone-before-marriage.html https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/what-does-the-bible-say-about-living-with-someone-before-marriage.html Greg Grandchamp https://www.crosswalk.com/author/greg-grandchamp/ Cohabitation is common, but is it biblical? Wed, 17 Dec 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2026-01-08T03:23:00-05:00